Nepaliaustralian Blog Award Nomination.


Forget the Golden Globes, the BAFTAs and even the Oscars, it’s all about the annual Nepaliaustralian Blog Awards – or at least it is for me.

Someone has very kindly nominated me in the Best Personal Blog 2016 category. Thank you very much. It made my day yesterday when I found out. I had to click on the link twice to check it really was my site.

I’ve been lucky enough to be nominated for a couple of blogging awards before, which I am always thankful for, but I’ve never really pushed forward with them because they often seem more about how many followers you have than blogging. Do I sound bitter? I don’t mean to, honest. I’m a little fish in a big pond and I’m more than happy to swim about in my small corner.

The Nepaliaustralian Awards strike me as different, though. They are run by a blogging mum, who was born in Nepal, which is top of my list of places to visit, who lives in Australia with her husband and daughter.

As she explains:

Every year many blogs are created to express thoughts and emotions. Some are really interesting while others are funny. While some choose to share about their life or relationship others share their skills and passion like cooking, photography or fashion. No matter what field the blog belongs to, if it is good, it needs to be recognized and more and more people should be able to reach these blogs.

There’s no big ceremony (I might buy a posh dress anyway), no trophy to take home, just recognition that you are doing something others enjoy. It’s a grassroots blogging award – and that really appeals to me.

So, if you like reading my blog please could you click here and cast your vote for me by pasting this into the comment box.

Best Personal Blog 2016 – 1.

You’ll need to supply an email address. Your vote won’t be shown in the comments.

While you’re there why not check out some of the other nominated blogs. The lovely, always supportive, Amanda who blogs at Something To Ponder About (home of the Monday Mystery Photo) is nominated in TWO categories, including best personal blog, and Jane at Sustayable Me, who kindly featured me in her Mum Friday Section, is up for Best New Blog.

Thanks again for every view, like and especially comment.

Thanks for being ‘epically awesome’.



When I first started blogging in April 2014 it was with two things in mind. I knew I wanted to raise awareness about anencephaly but also, after many months on maternity leave away from writing every day, I wanted to get some practice in before (hopefully) the freelance work started to come in.

And that was it.

Naturally I hoped people would read and maybe find some of what I had to say interesting/entertaining and that my (often fraught) tales of motherhood might ring a bell with some.

What I hadn’t anticipated was that blogging would open a grand door to an  endless room full of amazing people – many of whom I would be lucky enough to go on to call friends.

I know that some find it strange that you can consider someone whom you have never met a friend but blogging has a way of making that fact almost insignificant. Posts provide such insight into peoples lives – the good and bad, the exciting and even the mundane – it’s like you’re sat with them on the sofa in their living room while they update you on what’s been going on.

The world can be a lonely place at times but I think blogging makes it less so. No matter what your situation I bet there is someone out there who feels the same – and if there isn’t, all the more reason to start one because I bet there are others looking.

Anyway, all this is to say that Amanda at Something to Ponder About recently nominated me for an Epically Awesome award (thank you!), which was lovely in itself but it was the words she wrote that blew me away.

She said:

Tara from After the rain is someone who writes like I would like to be able to write. She constantly inspires me with her witty, topical and environmentally friendly posts. Oh! I so wish I could write like Tara!  And she manages to do this, while looking after a wee one. I am unsure whether she accepts awards but darn-it, I am nominating her anyway, as she is Epically awesome!

Her words actually brought tears to my eyes. People find it hard to believe that I don’t really have confidence in my writing – it’s what I do for a living, after all – but even after all these years I still feel like I’m simply getting away with it a lot of the time and that, one day, someone will find me out and my dream will be over.

For her to take the time to write that about me makes her epically awesome in my book but that’s also what I’ve found about blogging in general. The joy, aside from writing, is the connection I have made with so many wonderful, supportive, talented people (and not just because they say nice things about me).

So, I’m going to give an Epically Awesome award to the following bloggers. I haven’t stuck to 10, as the rules state I should, because that’s impossible (I probably could have gone up to 40 but I’ve run out of time).

If you’re nominated you don’t have to do anything with it, I just wanted you to know you are appreciated.

If Amanda hadn’t nominated me she would definitely be on my list. I find her posts (and comments) enlightening. I can feel myself grow as I learn from her wisdom but she also makes things fun. I love the Monday Mystery Photo/Object – occasionally I also get them right.

Here is my list:

Mands – Mother Mands (I am simply in awe of Mands).

Clare – Mud and Nettles (I love my mum but if I needed a second I’d want Clare to adopt me, even though we are the same age, so we can spend all our time geocaching and getting muddy feet).

Tanya – Scars, Tears and Training Bras (makes me laugh out loud which is no mean feat as she often writes about her cancer treatment. Clever, entertaining, super fit, generous and, as I have seen a photo, beautiful, too).

Deb – The Monster in Your Closet (writes like I would like to write).

Catherine – Battlemum (has a cool job and cute son).

Jenni – Odd Socks and Lollipops (I find myself nodding along to many of her posts about Boo, who is almost the same age as Freya).

Caz – Water Under It (a gifted writer full of heart who has been undergoing a tough time of late but still finds light to share).

Sandy – Mommy’s Little Princesses (one of the first people to ever follow my blog, thank you).

Gigi – Wide Ranging Ramblings (my top commenter according to WordPress, thank you).

Renee – Mummy Tries (not only does she write insightful blog posts on very little sleep but she’s also written a book to help others).

Leigh – Headspace Perspective (making Hugo proud of his mummy).

Lisa – Into the Glade (I would like to move into her house).

Catherine – Cultural Wednesdays (gives me a growing list of things to do/places to visit).

Sammy – Seize Each Day (Master B is officially adorable).

Haylee – Aloada Bobbins (knows how to pronounce Samhain properly).

Lucy – Blonde Write More (makes Monday mornings all the brighter).

Donna-Louise – Newshound to Novelist (she can verify I am a real person).

I want to thank everyone who has ever read/commented on a post. You really do make a difference.

I wish you all a happy and healthy 2016.