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A Look Behind The Book With Kirsten Hesketh.

meWriter Kirsten Hesketh recently took a huge step towards making her dream to publish a book (or two) a reality after securing an agent.

Her debut novel is finished and she has another well underway – both of which sound like my cup of tea. Hopefully it’s just a matter of time before they are snapped up.

I first ‘met’ Kirsten via Twitter and we joined together as part of a lovely group of writers supporting each other through last year’s National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo). I wouldn’t have even signed up with out their support let alone finished so I’m very grateful to them.

I was delighted when Kirsten agreed to take part in my Behind The Book series and I can relate to SO much of what she says.

Have a read and see what you think.

What’s your writing dream and how long have you been dreaming it?

Good question.  I had to think long and hard about this one and there are several different answers. My first dream, which I’ve held ever since I was a child, was to write a book that somehow captures my world and that people enjoy. At the end of the day, novels are all about entertainment, aren’t they? (Are they? Discuss!) Once I’d started my book, my second dream was to finish the damn thing, because writing a novel is hard. Bloody hard. And very long! Don’t let anyone tell you differently! I’m not always a great completer/ finisher in life – I can get bored and flit onto the next thing – so it became very important to me to actually type THE END … and then to edit it … and then to start polishing. And, then my dream changed to becoming published. To be honest, that feels a bit of a pipe dream at the moment, but I am discovering in myself a depth of tenacity and perseverance I never knew I had, so who knows. You have to keep the faith, don’t you?

Can you tell us about your writing?

I write commercial (hopefully!) women’s fiction and my novel is about a husband and wife whose marriage is tested to the limit after one of their sons is diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome. My twitter pitch is as follows:

One son recently diagnosed with autism. One teenager going off the rails. One marriage under pressure. One waistline out of control. And one woman desperately trying to hold it all together.


When did you know book one was finished?

I didn’t! First time around, I submitted far too early and I still cringe to think of what I send out. I don’t think it had a plot! But I got some requests for the full and some lovely rejections from agents with invitations to re-submit. I’ve now edited the book so we’ll see if it’s ready now. I’m not sure any creative endeavor is ever really finished, but I think I’ve got it as far as I can on my own.

How many people you know have read it? What was that like?

No one in ‘real’ – i.e. non-writing life – has read the whole thing although my family has dipped in and out. Three writing friends asked to read it – Chris Manby, Jane Ayres and Julie Cordiner. They were all enormously supportive and helpful and I’m very grateful to them all. It’s always a bit scary when people you know read something you’ve written but I love sharing my stuff. After all, I think most of us write to be read, don’t we?

How do you make time to write?

I treat it like a job. It’s not my main job yet – although I would love it to be – but I try to be vaguely professional about it. I am a freelance marketing consultant and the work tends to come in peaks and troughs …. Every time there’s a peak, I write in the evening and at weekends. When there’s a trough, I am at my desk from 9 to 5. If the muse comes calling, that’s a bonus!

How important has social media been for you as a writer connecting with other writers? What do you gain from it?

Twitter has been hugely important. Twitter is for writing, Facebook is for friends, LinkedIn for work and WhatsApp for family! Of course, there’s overlap – particularly as writers have become friends – but that’s basically how it works for me. I joined Twitter specifically to connect with the writing community after my friend, Susanna Scott at BritMums suggested it. At first it just seemed like a lot of noise and I was about to leave. Then I found ‘my’ people. More specifically, I found Maddie Please who was then also an aspiring author and she made me laugh. A lot.  Since then it’s been great. I’ve made very genuine friends, found out about retreats and conferences and agents and had a whole lot of fun along the way. And, of course, there are the LLs – Literary Lovelies – a message group where we support each other through the highs and lows. I don’t think I would have finished this book without them.

You regularly write for Susanna Bavin’s blog about how things are going. I’ve found your posts really inspiring as someone on a similar journey but do they help you take stock too?

Thank you, Tara. I’m so thrilled you find my posts inspiring.

I love contributing to Sue’s wonderful blog. I’m so grateful to her for giving me a regular slot. It’s hugely generous of her. I love writing the posts too. Writing and submitting can be such a glacial process that sometimes I wonder if I am making any progress at all but when I sit down to write the post, I realise that, each month, things arehappening albeit very, very slowly. It’s quite cathartic sharing the frustrations and disappointments and wonderful sharing the highs. And I love, love, love all the comments. It helps me feel plugged in to the wider world in what can be a pretty lonely business.

Is there something you have learnt during the process of submitting either to agents or publishers that you wish you had known at the start?

Not really except to make sure that you are actually ready to submit and have a plot rather than blindly pressing the button after Draft One! Also, it may sound contradictory, but make sure that you do submit.

Kirsten Quote

I actually really enjoy the submissions process – I love the thrill of the chase. It’s rather like chasing boys as a teenager. (Who? Me?)  Of course, the rejections aren’t very nice, but once the sting has subsided, I’ve found that every agent’s comment has actually turned out to be gold-dust in helping me move forward.

Are you able to share a little about what are you working on at the moment?

Of course. My second book is a love story set on an archaeological dig and affectionately nick-named Muddy Milly. I wrote about 25k words last summer and then added another 50k during NaNoWriMo last November. Wasn’t Nano fun? I very much enjoyed sharing it with you and the rest of the Ab Fab writers! I’ve just returned to Muddy Milly and – although there is loads of work to do, I’m quite pleased with it. Lots of clunky writing though –  you can really tell when it’s the end of each day and I was just battling to get those words down!

Do you have a top tip to share? Something that has helped you on your writing journey?

Something that Susanna Bavin advised me to do has really helped. Make sure when you stop writing each day, you know how you are going to carry on the next day. Mornings are never my best time, and it’s so dispiriting staring at the screen with a mushy brain and not knowing how or where to start. If you leave something flagged up from the day before, you’re flying!


Thank you very much to Kirsten for answering my questions so thoughtfully. I know I suffer from the same issue of sending things out long before they are ready. I think it’s because of the media industry we work in – normally we write something and it’s done. I need to remember that a novel is a VERY different beast and to take my time.

If you’d like to follow Kirsten’s path to publication you can find her on Twitter and you can read her latest blog post for Susanna Bavin here.


31 thoughts on “A Look Behind The Book With Kirsten Hesketh.”

  1. Well, Tara, you did say that I’d like Kirsten’s writing tip! I loved reading this interview. I know about Kirsten’s writing journey because we are friends, but this fleshed out some details that I enjoyed reading. NaNoWriMo was huge fun last year and being part of a group is what gave me the push I needed to reach the 50,000 word target for the first time. Kirsten has worked hard to get her novel ready and she deserves success. She has been so open and honest about all her ups and downs and I think she has inspired others.

    PS What a fab Twitter pitch. I wish I could come up with things like that.


    1. Aww – thank you Susanna!. I was quite pleased with that Twitter pitch. I’d experimented with so many and this one got a ‘like’ and a ‘follow’ from a publisher! Thank you for all your support as ever xx


  2. Excellent blog, lovely interview and so exciting Kirsten! Thank you for the mention too. It’s all down to your hard work and talent. Can’t wait to read the book. Wishing you great sales and marvellous reviews! x


  3. Fab interview Tara. Lovely to hear more from you Kirsten; following your journey is encouraging and insightful in equal measure. Congratulations again for getting an agent


  4. Brilliant! Thanks for the interview Tara and lovely to hear more about your adventure Kirsten. Many congratulations. I too suffer from the impatient ‘just send it off’ approach… must polish!


    1. Ha! Another one with ‘trigger finger’ eh? It’s really hard if you are a naturally impulsive person, isn’t it? xx


  5. I think your comment is spot on, Tara. My work is generally very collaborative, so as soon as I’ve finished a draft, off it goes for someone else to improve upon. It took me a while to realise that this does not apply when submitting to agents for the first time! xx


    1. It’s a completely different mindset, one I really struggle with. Thanks again for taking part, I really loved your answers and I’m so pleased other people are enjoying them too.


  6. Loved reading this, Kirsten. It’s full of great, honest experiences and incredibly helpful.

    Brilliant questions too, Tara!

    I’m a morning writer, but even so, Susanna Bavin’s tip is exactly what I need to be able to leap straight in, as soon as I’ve had my early morning cuppa, so thank you for sharing!


    1. Thank you Sandra! I’m glad you found the post helpful and the questions were great, weren’t they? They really made me think! xx Good luck with your own writing xx


  7. I enjoyed this interview, Kirsten and Tara. And what a fab Twitter pitch! I’m happy to be sharing in your writing journey, Kirsten and wish you much success with publisher submissions. I’m also looking forward to reading your book, not least because I have a family member on the Autism spectrum.


  8. Thank you, Kirsten and Tara, for this great interview. Congratulations on getting your agent, Kirsten. 🎉 I can relate to so much of what you say. I particularly like your tip about not submitting your novel too soon and that positive feedback can be the gold-dust needed to move on and improve the novel. I shall be following lots of the advice in this post. 🙂📚


    1. Thank you Jan. I do really appreciate all your support and I wish you all the very best with your own writing;. Looking forward to seeing you in Oxford very soon x


    1. Thank you for reading. I’m sorry things aren’t going that well for you and your family at the moment. I know it’s no consolation but it sounds like both Mary and Carl are in the right place and getting the help they need so they can come home (hopefully Carl will be back with you really soon). Sending best wishes.

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